In society today women feel all sorts of different pressures to fit in or stick with the status quo. These pressures could be to become smarter, prettier, thinner or anything else along those lines. There is a new pressure that is rising in society today though. This pressure is for women to become more domestic.There is a lot of talk about how good moms and wives are the women that can cook, clean, and take care of everything else around the house. These women are supposed to enjoy being domesticated and make it even look fun. This is where social media sites like Pinterest come into play. Women can go on Pinterest and find all kinds of ways to make cleaning, cooking, organizing, exercising, and making them selves look better “fun and easy”. A new word has even been created to talk about this new life style for women. It is called “domestic chic.” When women are “domestic chic” they are what society would consider the perfect woman. The “good” wife and mother. Some examples of social media that displays “domestic chic” are mommy blogs, Pinterest, and foodie blogs. There is even a blog called Domestic Chic. This blog has everything you would think a domestic woman would be good at or want to learn more about. From recipes, to coupons, and even to fashion advice. There is even a whole line of items out on the market with “domestic diva” written on them.
“‘Feminized digital media” enhance and optimize women’s work” (Wilson and Yochim 3). This quote is from an article all about the new Pinterest craze and the domesticity of women today. It claims that things that are feminized or made for a female audience are more likely to help a woman do a better job at whatever she is working on. This goes back to the line of “domestic diva” items. According to this, since the apron is feminized it will help the woman wearing it become better at cooking.
This new craze with women to become more domestic is called new domesticity. “New Domesticity is re-embrace of home and hearth by those who have the means to reject these things. It’s the MBA who quits her corporate gig to downsize to a solar-powered barn. It’s the twentysomething New Yorker who spends her evenings blogging about her latest baking project rather than hitting the clubs” (Matchar 12). Pinterest is something that definitely helps women out with this. Speaking of that, Pinterest has proved to be a big hit with women and their need to feel more domesticated. They just received a $3.8 billion dollar valuation. This makes them one of the most valuable, privately held internet companies. This has a lot to do with what Wilson and Yochim said in their article “Pinning Happiness”. Pinterest is “organizing products and practices that promise happiness” (Wilson and Yochim 3). Women look at the different products, recipes, and DIY activities all over Pinterest and think about how all of these things can make their lives better. They think they’d be happier if they could make that amazing homemade lasagna or make a jewelry organizer on their own without having to go out and buy one. It gives them a sense of fulfillment.
This video explains the hype about Pinterest. It is somewhat making fun of Pinterest and the crazy obsession a lot of women have with it. If you look at her captions on her “Pinterest board” though, you can see that they are things like “dream friends” or “dream rooms”. This is how women view Pinterest. They use it to create a fantasy about how they want their life to be and what will make them and/or their family happy in the long run. She also pokes fun at how Pinterest is supposed to represent happiness in ridiculous ways. She describes this by making a fake board called “dream happiness”. This “dream happiness” they are referring to is promised by the image of two happy models riding their bike with the beach in the background. This is not necessarily what happiness is to everyone, but it creates this happy image that women want to recreate because it makes them feel as though they will be happy doing it as well. This new interest in being domesticated and DIY culture can also be related back to Hook’s theory about “consumer cannibalism”. “Commodification of difference [that] promotes paradigms of consumption wherein whatever difference the Other inhabits is eradicated, via exhange, by a consumer cannibalism that not only displaces the Other but denies the significance of that Other’s history through a process of decontextualization” (hooks 431). An example of this is when women go on Pinterest an find all kinds of DIY activities to make their house more organized, decorated, or anything else along those lines. There is a whole tab on Pinterest called “DIY and Crafts” that has all kinds of things that fit in the consumer cannibalism category. You can create an ornament out of an orange, while an orange was never meant to be an ornament or anything along those lines.
Women are becoming more and more domesticated either because they want to or because they feel that they need to based on what society wants. That is why the DIY culture and social media sites like Pinterest are there to help women feel domesticated.
Matchar, Emily. (2013). Homeward Bound. pg 12. Print.
Wilson, Julie A. Yochim, Emily C. Pinning Happiness: Affect, Social Media, and Women’s Work. 2013. pg 3. Print.
Hooks, Bell. “Eating the Other: Desire and Resistance”. Eating the Other. Blackwell Publishers Ltd. 2001. pg 431. Print.
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